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Everything you need to set boundaries, you already have.

Everything you need to set boundaries, you already have. ...

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Another friendly public service announcement lol

Another friendly public service announcement lol ...

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Very successful people pleasers are actually pretty common. And they all share one trait. If this lands for you, drop me a follow people pleasers that successfully manage the social hierarchy usually burn out, right? About 35 years old. This is because they've spent their entire lives giving more than they're getting back.

And now they have the means to do it financially as well, which then leads to transactional relationships, which then leads to crippling loneliness, which then leads to burnout and substance abuse. Try to remember that you're not responsible for anyone's health or well being but your own. So invest in yourself and be more realistic in your giving.

Hope this helps.

Very successful people pleasers are actually pretty common. And they all share one trait. If this lands for you, drop me a follow people pleasers that successfully manage the social hierarchy usually burn out, right? About 35 years old. This is because they`ve spent their entire lives giving more than they`re getting back.

And now they have the means to do it financially as well, which then leads to transactional relationships, which then leads to crippling loneliness, which then leads to burnout and substance abuse. Try to remember that you`re not responsible for anyone`s health or well being but your own. So invest in yourself and be more realistic in your giving.

Hope this helps.
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✨ Ready to level up? Follow these steps and watch yourself grow! 💪
1️⃣ Acknowledge Your Desire for More: Recognize that wanting more means you need to level up.
2️⃣ Identify Excuses: Be aware of the excuses you make, such as feeling misunderstood or lacking discipline.
3️⃣ Understand Your Background: Acknowledge any lack of support or discipline from your upbringing, but don't let it define you.
4️⃣ Focus on the Journey, Not Just the Milestones: The excitement isn't just at the beginning or the end, but in the learning and growing in the middle.
5️⃣ Commit to the Grind: Accept that progress involves hard work and sometimes monotony.
6️⃣ Break the Pattern: Decide not to repeat past behaviors of quitting when things get tough.
7️⃣ Persist Through Boredom and Difficulty: Stay committed even when the process isn't exciting.
8️⃣ Eliminate Excuses: Stop making excuses and face challenges head-on.
9️⃣ Learn Continuously: Embrace the process of learning and growing.
🔟 Level Up: Push yourself to become a bigger and better version of yourself.
Let’s do this! 🚀✨
#boundaries #growth #healing #success

✨ Ready to level up? Follow these steps and watch yourself grow! 💪
1️⃣ Acknowledge Your Desire for More: Recognize that wanting more means you need to level up.
2️⃣ Identify Excuses: Be aware of the excuses you make, such as feeling misunderstood or lacking discipline.
3️⃣ Understand Your Background: Acknowledge any lack of support or discipline from your upbringing, but don`t let it define you.
4️⃣ Focus on the Journey, Not Just the Milestones: The excitement isn`t just at the beginning or the end, but in the learning and growing in the middle.
5️⃣ Commit to the Grind: Accept that progress involves hard work and sometimes monotony.
6️⃣ Break the Pattern: Decide not to repeat past behaviors of quitting when things get tough.
7️⃣ Persist Through Boredom and Difficulty: Stay committed even when the process isn`t exciting.
8️⃣ Eliminate Excuses: Stop making excuses and face challenges head-on.
9️⃣ Learn Continuously: Embrace the process of learning and growing.
🔟 Level Up: Push yourself to become a bigger and better version of yourself.
Let’s do this! 🚀✨
#boundaries #growth #healing #success
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"Whining about it is not going to fix it. No amount of complaining is going to make them do the thing they said they were going to do. And no matter how you feel about it, the situation is what it is."

1️⃣ Accept Reality: Recognize that some things are beyond your control.
2️⃣ Shift Your Perspective: Focus on changing your attitude and habits instead of trying to change others.
3️⃣ Take Responsibility: Own your reactions and feelings. "The moment I realized the only things I have control over are myself, the way I feel about things, and the way I think about things, I stopped blaming things outside of myself."
4️⃣ Empower Yourself: By taking responsibility, you can transform your life into something truly special.

Life isn't always fair, but by letting go of what you can't control and focusing on what you can, you pave the way to a more fulfilling life. 🌟

#LettingGo #SelfEmpowerment #MindsetShift #PositiveVibes #TakeControl #lifelessons

"Whining about it is not going to fix it. No amount of complaining is going to make them do the thing they said they were going to do. And no matter how you feel about it, the situation is what it is."

1️⃣ Accept Reality: Recognize that some things are beyond your control.
2️⃣ Shift Your Perspective: Focus on changing your attitude and habits instead of trying to change others.
3️⃣ Take Responsibility: Own your reactions and feelings. "The moment I realized the only things I have control over are myself, the way I feel about things, and the way I think about things, I stopped blaming things outside of myself."
4️⃣ Empower Yourself: By taking responsibility, you can transform your life into something truly special.

Life isn`t always fair, but by letting go of what you can`t control and focusing on what you can, you pave the way to a more fulfilling life. 🌟

#LettingGo #SelfEmpowerment #MindsetShift #PositiveVibes #TakeControl #lifelessons
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Shame on you, seriously... It is not uncommon to feel shame and very often it keeps you from doing dumb s***. It is time to for shame to make a come back #shame #growup #growth #healing #trauma

Shame on you, seriously... It is not uncommon to feel shame and very often it keeps you from doing dumb s***. It is time to for shame to make a come back #shame #growup #growth #healing #trauma ...

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Feeling drained from constantly giving to others? Compassion fatigue is real, but you can overcome it! 🌟 Here are 4 steps to help you bounce back:

Set Boundaries: Learn to say no and protect your personal time. Your well-being comes first.
Practice Self-Care: Prioritize activities that rejuvenate you, like hobbies, exercise, or simply resting.
Seek Support: Talk to friends, family, or a therapist about your feelings. Don’t carry the burden alone.
Reconnect with Your Purpose: Remind yourself why you started helping others. Reignite that passion within you.
Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup. Fill yours first! 

💪💖 #CompassionFatigue #SelfCare #MentalHealth #BurnoutPrevention

Feeling drained from constantly giving to others? Compassion fatigue is real, but you can overcome it! 🌟 Here are 4 steps to help you bounce back:

Set Boundaries: Learn to say no and protect your personal time. Your well-being comes first.
Practice Self-Care: Prioritize activities that rejuvenate you, like hobbies, exercise, or simply resting.
Seek Support: Talk to friends, family, or a therapist about your feelings. Don’t carry the burden alone.
Reconnect with Your Purpose: Remind yourself why you started helping others. Reignite that passion within you.
Remember, you can`t pour from an empty cup. Fill yours first!

💪💖 #CompassionFatigue #SelfCare #MentalHealth #BurnoutPrevention
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Love is powerful, but it cannot change others. They need to find their path to sobriety and healing on their own. 💔✨ 

Learning to set boundaries, to understand who you are, and undestanding your values is absolutelty vital to your growth. If you want to learn more click the link in my bio and down load my free guide. 

#SelfLove #Boundaries #healingjourney

Love is powerful, but it cannot change others. They need to find their path to sobriety and healing on their own. 💔✨

Learning to set boundaries, to understand who you are, and undestanding your values is absolutelty vital to your growth. If you want to learn more click the link in my bio and down load my free guide.

#SelfLove #Boundaries #healingjourney
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