YouTube Videos Archive - The People Displeaser

What if we called trauma responses what they really are? Maladaptive, emotionally immature, socially

by | Jun 11, 2024

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What if we called trauma responses what they really are? Maladaptive, emotionally immature, socially

June 11, 2024 5:38 pm

What if we called trauma responses what they really are? Maladaptive, emotionally immature, socially crippling behaviors that we need to address. What if we took responsibility for our reactions to triggers instead of blaming the triggers? Imagine replacing victim...

1️⃣ Acknowledge Your Emotions: You’re allowed to be excited

by | Jun 9, 2024

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1️⃣ Acknowledge Your Emotions: You're allowed to be excited

June 9, 2024 5:37 pm

1️⃣ Acknowledge Your Emotions: You’re allowed to be excited. You’re allowed to be sad. You’re allowed to get your feelings hurt. 2️⃣ Embrace Your Journey: You’re allowed to get rich. You’re allowed to fail....

People Pleasing and Addiciton

by | Jun 8, 2024

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People Pleasing and Addiciton

June 8, 2024 5:33 pm

People Pleasing and Addiciton

People pleasers are the best liars, and I used to be one of them YAY

by nick | May 7, 2024

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People pleasers are the best liars, and I used to be one of them YAY

May 7, 2024 12:10 am

You should never have to explain your boundaries…

by nick | May 5, 2024

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It's not that you shouldn't explain your boundaries. It's that you shouldn't really have to. If this lands for you, drop me a follow. One of the common misconceptions about boundaries is that you have to have boundary conversations with everyone. But when your boundaries are set correctly, they don't require conversations at all because they're not about anyone else.<br /><br />They're internal guidelines based on your value systems that determine how you show up in the world and what you'll tolerate and won't tolerate. Boundary like. I am not responsible for other people's choices. Other people's happiness is not my responsibility, and I'm not responsible for other people's emotions are all personal statements of how you show up in the world, and they're about how you operate.<br /><br />Because those boundaries are for you and by you, you are responsible for honoring and protecting them or adhering to those guidelines. Remember that boundaries are something you do for yourself, not against other people. While a conversation can be a kind way of helping those you love understand your new boundaries, it's not always a requirement.<br /><br />If you want to know more about setting bulletproof boundaries, click the link in my bio and download my free guide. Hope this helps. www.stan.store/nickpollardexperience<br /><br />#Boundaries #growth #sober #selfcare #PeoplePleasing #success

You should never have to explain your boundaries...

May 5, 2024 8:10 pm

It’s not that you shouldn’t explain your boundaries. It’s that you shouldn’t really have to. If this lands for you, drop me a follow. One of the common misconceptions about boundaries is that you have to have boundary conversations with...